What is Sacred Union? It's a relationship that has transcended the classic expectations of an average relationship. Sacred Union feels like being wrapped up in softest warm cuddly love clouds, and surfing through glittering rainbow galaxies across the universe. Its the deepest trust, the most innocent and open hearted connection, communing with the spirits.
The difference from a classic relationship and a relationship of Sacred Union is, not, that the relationship is easy or a "perfect fit". Rather, that the people in the relationship have developed a knowing of themselves.
Practiced being able to hold themselves, and even one another, through hard emotional processes. Thus being able to facilitate healing in the relationship. Creating an upward spiral of growth, and achieving access to the highest levels of trust and love available to their souls.
The classic relationship timeline: two people fall in love with one another, the champagne bubbles dance through their veins, blessed for the moment to have met one another. Until their systems reach the first threshold, where their systems desire to up level. They feel safe enough with this person to relax and start showing "who they really are" this is actually showing up with all your non-integrated traumas from the past, jostling to be seen, heard, and healed.
Instead of politely dancing around one anothers wounds and traumas, eventually accidentally triggering one another and getting lost in unconscious stories. Often there are blatant but unconsious acts of testing and judging the partner. "If you really loved me, you would do or be XYZ for me!" and this is coming from both sides! So often relationships disintegrate into chaos, hurt, and ultimately separation. Even if they stay together, the relationship just isn't what it used to be. Unfortunately our society tells us this is "normal". This is outrageously untrue! My mission is to have the world full of thriving, passionate, humans in love with whoever they choose and living life to the fullest!
With time our systems start to seek integration, we start to fight, start to get hurt, or even, as the love becomes very real and deep, we sabotage or even hide from the potential love upgrade, because on an unconsious level we "dont deserve" or "cant handle" that level of love. A never ending downward spiral, where the same stories repeat themselves endlessly.
With my methods this spiral can become an upward spiral! Instead of avoiding conflict you will have to tools to dive right through to find the core need of yourself and your partner, connect to your north star, integrate the wounds, and therby creating trust and safety to be all you are, seen, held, understood, and supported.
It is unavoidable to go through this portal, like a birth, on the other side lies a deep, satisfying knowing, that this partner can go through it all with you. And there begins Sacred Union.
That soul connection. The kind that nourishes one another's souls and can go through all obstacles of life. The ALIVE relationship, responsive and stable. Safe AND exciting.
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