Every human I've ever met, has a need to be "good". However this goal of being "good", or "good enough", given up to the pre-definitions of our society leads us down a path of trying to make everyone else tell us we are good enough. We are forced to "prove it". We begin to deny parts of ourselves, sending them away as broken, unworthy, shamefull aspects of ourselves.
Integrating our darkness is one of the most beautiful and healing practices I know. Its about loving yourself whole again. Only we can truly integrate and love all of who we are, only we know everything about ourselves, and even then I must say, so many people really dont know who they are!
Integrating the dark is not about giving yourself permission to cause harm or spread hate.... These actions are always carried out through a dis-integrated aspect or "entity".
It is about openning your heart to the parts of you that have been unloved. By integrating your "darkness", aspects of your truth are revealed, giving you insights into your deepest desires, and your most precious gifts.
Just for an example...
That "clingy" aspect of you, which you spend so much energy to override and judging, integrated and honoured, is actually your sweet heart, eager to connect in trusting love. Denying this aspect is denying a beautiful part of your Soul. Limiting your expression, and ultimately hiding your true nature from being seen by someone who would truely cherish exactly that for which you shame yourself.
Integrating our darkness is often the first steps to becoming who you really are, preparing yourself for true heart connected relationship, and taking ownership for your life.
Are you ready to love yourself whole again? Make an appointment for your first free desire mapping session, and talk with me about your options to begin your journey of self love.
Soul Retrieval, Integrating Darkness
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